[Rules of Life Series] : Part 1



Keep it under your hat

Don't preach, propagate or even mention this.

Pan is the least expressive guy I've ever known,
he's very mysterious that people sometimes forget his existence.
In some cases, this is a good thing.
While others busy telling their world about their dreams,
he lets his success make the noise.

I kinda like this side of him,
and I'm trying my best to adopt this attitude.
But I will still blog about stuff, because only 15 readers, so it's fine haha!




You'll get older but not necessarily wiser

Sad fact, but it's the truth.  Not all old people are smart and wise.
This surely makes me realize that we can learn something from everyone.
While wisdom is not about not making mistakes, 
but it's about learning to escape afterward, with our dignity and sanity intact.

I'm a 23-year-old woman and I'm still making mistakes.



Accept what is done is done

What is done, is done. You need to get on with your life.
Embrace all the bad things as being an important part of you and move on.
The change occurred when you realized that even if you could confront the people
who had "done you wrong", there'll be nothing they could do about it.
You could shout at them, rant at them, but there'd be nothing that could do
to make amends and put things right.




Accept yourself

Accept it. You don't have to improve or change or strive for perfection, just accept.
Accept who you are, the result of everything that has happened.
You come fully loaded with 
desires, 
anguish, 
sins, 
pettiness at times, 
mistakes, 
ill temper,
rudeness,
deviation,
hesitation,
and repetition.
That what makes a human being so wonderful; the complexity.
None of us can even be perfect.
We have to be awake and aware,
be ready to do the right thing.
And accept that some days, you're not going to make it,
Some days, you will fall, far short, That's OK!
Don't beat yourself up.
Pick yourself up and start again.


Know what counts and what doesn't

Being here counts. 
Being kind and considerate counts.
Criticizing everyone on social media doesn't.

Think about what you do that counts and do more of it.

There're things in life that are important
and a whole lot of things that are not.







3 comments

  1. Rules of life; knowledge can be gained thru experience and readings. Can't wait for part 2

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  2. I really needed to hear this. Thank you blogging. Keep it up! :)

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